Anxiety Is My Jam: A Podcast

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Anxiety Is My Jam

Anxiety Is My Jam is a podcast that explores and discusses anxiety in a lighthearted and relatable way. Join Licensed Therapist, Ebonii Nelson, as she shares her life lessons, humor, fifth-grade level science speak, legally shareable anecdotes from her therapy space, Q&A with listeners, and a strategically selected musical selection to address the challenges and experiences of living with anxiety. 

The Trailer


🎧 New Podcast Alert!

Welcome to Anxiety Is My Jam, where we strip away the psychobabble and cut through the angst around anxiety to give it to you real, raw, and relatable. Every week, we’ll dive into what it really means to live with anxiety—no sugarcoating, no judgment—just honest conversations and practical takeaways.

And here’s the twist: each episode features a strategically selected song that resonates with the theme of the week. Whether it’s a jam to get you through the day, or a deep cut that makes you feel seen, the music will be your companion in navigating those anxious moments.

So, if you're tired of the typical “buzzwords” and want a fresh take on anxiety—with a side of great tunes—hit that follow button and get ready for a new episode every week.

Let’s talk, and let’s jam. 🎶✨

Summary

In this conversation, Ebonii Nelson, a psychotherapist and anxiety specialist, explores the multifaceted nature of anxiety, distinguishing between healthy anxiety and diagnosable anxiety disorders such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) and Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD). She emphasizes the protective role of anxiety in our lives while also addressing the challenges posed by life anxiety, particularly in social situations. The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing anxiety responses and developing coping strategies to manage them effectively. 

Takeaways
  • Anxiety is a normal protective mechanism of the brain.
  • There are various diagnosable anxiety disorders, including GAD and SAD.
  • Life anxiety can arise from everyday situations and feelings.
  • Social anxiety can lead to avoidance of meaningful interactions.
  • Healthy anxiety is different from diagnosable anxiety disorders.
  • Recognizing anxiety responses is crucial for management.
  • Coping strategies can help in navigating anxiety triggers.
  • Understanding the purpose of anxiety can reduce stigma.
  • Anxiety can be both a helpful and a disruptive force in life.
  • Developing skills to calm the anxiety system is essential.
Sound Bites
  • "Anxiety is a protective mode for the brain."
  • "We all possess the ability to go into that space."
  • "Diagnosable anxiety is an experience like none other."
Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Anxiety 

00:29 Understanding Anxiety: Causes and Effects

00:44 Understanding Anxiety: A Collective Perspective

01:13 Navigating Through Anxiety with Grace

01:23 Understanding Anxiety: Definitions and Perspectives

01:53 The DSM and Its Role in Mental Health

02:36 Understanding Anxiety: Definitions and Perspectives

02:40 The Nature and Purpose of Anxiety

02:48 Understanding Anxiety: Definitions and Insights

03:14 The Purpose of Anxiety in Our Lives

03:18 Understanding Anxiety: A Protective Mechanism

03:44 Distinguishing Healthy Anxiety from Diagnosable Anxiety

04:45 Understanding Anxiety Disorders

05:12 The Dangers of Self-Diagnosis

08:25 Understanding Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

11:22 The Impact of GAD on Daily Life

11:44 Understanding Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) and Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

12:43 Personal Experiences with Social Anxiety and Networking Challenges

15:30 Navigating Networking Anxiety

17:53 The Impact of Self-Perception on Social Interactions

18:57 Understanding Different Types of Anxiety Disorders

21:47 Navigating Life Anxiety

25:55 Understanding Anxiety's Role in Life

27:41 Recognizing Triggers and Responses

28:08 Understanding Anxiety: Diagnosable vs. Life Anxiety

28:56 Outro

Keywords

anxiety, mental health, GAD, SAD, life anxiety, social anxiety, coping strategies, psychotherapy, emotional well-being, anxiety disorders 

Track Deets

Song Title: Danger

Artist: Mystikal

Notes: "Danger" is the alarm that signals the awakening of Anxiety. 

S1:E1 - "The Anatomy of Anxiety: Definitions & Realities"

Summary

In this episode, Ebonii Nelson, a psychotherapist and anxiety specialist, explores the neuroscience behind anxiety, discussing how the brain develops and responds to anxiety. She explains the triune brain theory and how different brain parts contribute to anxiety responses. The conversation delves into the impact of chronic anxiety on cognitive functions and physical health, emphasizing the importance of awareness in managing anxiety. 

Takeaways
  • Anxiety is a protective mechanism of the brain.
  • The brain develops in stages, affecting emotional responses.
  • Chronic anxiety can lead to cognitive impairments.
  • Awareness of anxiety triggers is crucial for management.
  • The hindbrain acts as the brain's alarm system.
  • Sleep deprivation can exacerbate anxiety symptoms.
  • Emotional responses are linked to brain development stages.
  • Understanding brain functions can help in managing anxiety.
  • Anxiety responses can physically affect the body.
  • The triune brain theory provides a framework for understanding anxiety.
Sound Bites
  • "Anxiety is the brain's protective mode."
  • "Anxiety puts on her headset with 911 backup."
  • "The brain's alarm system is the hindbrain."
Chapters

00:00 Understanding Anxiety: The Neuroscience Behind It

00:32 Understanding Anxiety: The Neuroscience Behind It

01:01 The Protective Role of Anxiety

01:30 Assessing Threats: The Brain's Response

01:45 Understanding the Brain: The Triune Brain Theory

07:27 Understanding Brain Development in Humans

10:23 The Role of Different Brain Parts in Behavior

11:31 Understanding Anxiety: The Emotional Intruder

17:27 The Aftermath of Anxiety: Exhaustion and Recovery

19:05 Understanding Anxiety: The Switch On and Off

25:12 The Connection Between Anxiety and Sleep

27:34 Closing Part

31:18 Outro

Keywords

anxiety, neuroscience, brain development, chronic anxiety, mental health, emotional response, psychotherapy

Track Deets

Song Title: Clarity

Artist: John Mayer

Notes: This song was selected because it's almost as if Mayer really is talking about the time and space between anxious moments. And that's the goal, to have 'clarity' of when and if an anxious moment is upon us and what to do when we spot it. 

S1:E2 - "Wiring Worries: Unpacking the Neuroscience of Anxiety"

Summary

In this episode, Ebonii explores the interconnectedness of concern, worry, and anxiety. She explains how concern is a natural emotion that can lead to worry if not managed properly. The conversation delves into the cycle of concern turning into anxiety and provides a six-step process to break this cycle, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, reframing thoughts, and seeking support.


Takeaways
  • Concern is a natural and healthy emotion.
  • Worry begins when concern lingers and intensifies.
  • Anxiety occurs when worry goes unchecked.
  • The cycle of concern to anxiety can be broken.
  • Self-soothing techniques can help manage anxiety.
  • Reframing thoughts is crucial in reducing worry.
  • Seeking support is important for managing anxiety.
  • Awareness of concern helps in taking actionable steps.
  • Worry can lead to a feedback loop of anxiety.
  • Understanding the difference between concern and worry is key.
Sound Bites
  • "Concern is care."
  • "Concern is our friend."
  • "You are not alone in feeling anxious."
Chapters

00:00 Understanding Anxiety and Its Impact

00:32 The Role of Mindfulness in Anxiety Relief

00:37 New Chapter

22:17 Outro

Keywords

concern, worry, anxiety, mental health, emotional wellbeing, coping strategies, psychotherapy, self-soothing, mental health awareness, anxiety management

Track Deets

Song Title: 5 Minutes

Artist: Allen Stone

Notes: This song was selected because it's literally Stone compelling us to slow down and actually be present in the life we're living. And it's the pause, the 5 minute wait, that can also help facilitate the downgrade from Anxiety to Worry, and from Worry back to Concern that we can take action on. 

Downloadables



S1:E3 - "The Ripple Effect: How Concern Begets Worry & Worry Begets Anxiety"